“Ready to Graduate from Letting Others Decide for You?”
Apr 29, 2025
Life may be simpler than you think
When we leave life’s decisions—big or small—to someone else, it often means that, deep down, we’re not ready to take full ownership of the outcome. “I don’t want to decide. I don’t want to be responsible if it goes wrong.”
This unconscious tendency is the same one that leads us to rely on fortune-telling or search for signs outside ourselves.
But those who bravely make their own choices—and take responsibility for them—gain something far more valuable than just results: they build wisdom, confidence, and deep self-trust. Even when things don’t go as planned, the experience becomes an asset.
By contrast, those who leave decisions to others often end up resenting, criticizing, or quietly judging them when life doesn’t unfold as hoped. Over time, this subtle dependency can spiral into a cycle of blame—becoming a major source of energy leakage.
This pattern doesn’t begin in adulthood. It’s rooted in early childhood. As infants, we couldn’t speak or act for ourselves, so we relied completely on others.
Those early experiences are still stored in the brain—frozen in time.
The extent to which those memories still operate beneath the surface shapes how dependent we remain today.
Why? Because the emotional brain—the Inner Child—functions like the operating system of the mind.
So pause and ask yourself: Is your Inner Child still hoping someone else will make the big and small choices in your daily life? Still caught in patterns of anxiety, blame, or disappointment?
If so, it may be time to gently rewire that pattern. Start small: make a decision. Take action. Own the result.
This one shift can bring unexpected ease to your daily life—and greater clarity to your relationships. And before long, you may find yourself realizing: “Life is actually much simpler than I thought.”
Warm regards,
Saemi
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