βFrom Fear of Change to Freedom of Growthβ
Sep 23, 2025
Why your Child Mind resists change—and how your Adult Self can gently lead the way
By the time we are six or seven years old, our emotional brain has already stored countless impressions. These early memories form the “default settings” of our inner world, much like the operating system of a computer.
When the same struggles or relationship challenges keep repeating in adulthood, it is usually because these childhood patterns—our thought loops, self-images, and inner stories—have never been updated.
Meanwhile, AI and technology are evolving at a pace faster than ever before, reshaping the way we live each day. If you notice yourself feeling chronic stress, anxiety, or overwhelm in response to these changes, it may be your Child Mind quietly saying: “I’m scared of change.”
This part of you doesn’t need judgment—it needs the comfort of your gentle encouragement. Each day, let your Adult Self whisper simple phrases of reassurance to your Child Mind, reminding it that it is safe to grow, safe to step into new possibilities.
“I know you feel safe when nothing changes.
I know the familiar way feels easier.
That’s why you hesitate to learn new things, to try, or to set goals.
Yes, starting something new requires effort. At times it calls for courage, perseverance, and the steady consistency to keep moving forward.
But beyond those challenges lies so much more:
a deeper satisfaction, fulfillment, and confidence that simply cannot be found in staying the same.
And with it comes the gift of inner spaciousness—a heart free enough to meet life with grace and boundless possibilities.
Through experiences, you see horizons that were once invisible.
Through challenges, you gain wisdom no one can take away.
And along the way, life brings connections and joys that make the journey deeply worthwhile.
This is why change is so valuable. Your Adult Self has walked this path, and your future self is inviting you to take the step too.
Mistakes do not mean failure. They mean you are learning, growing, and evolving. And when you fall, I will catch you. So move forward with your best effort—trusting in your strength and your potential.
Take one step. Then another.
I am here, walking beside you.
You are safe, and you are ready.”
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Warm regards,
Saemi
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