“Most Adult Problems Don’t Start in Adulthood”
Feb 10, 2026
Why unresolved childhood patterns quietly control adult decisions
When I use the term Child Mind, I’m referring to the memories and thought patterns recorded in the emotional brain during early childhood.
As we grow, these memory data move into the unconscious and continue to quietly influence our choices, emotional reactions, and expectations—often without us realizing it.
When recurring troubles appear in life, very often the root lies in the Child Mind—dependent thought patterns and compressed, unexpressed anger formed early on.
We are born completely helpless. For a long time, safety, care, attention, and protection are provided automatically. Nothing is asked. Nothing needs to be earned.
From this experience, unconscious assumptions can take root:
“I am valuable without doing anything.”
“Others should know my needs without me saying them.”
“The one who takes care of me exists for me.”
As we grow—when siblings are born, when we become more capable—that automatic care and constant attention naturally decrease. For the Child Mind, this shift can be deeply shocking and disorienting in the nervous system.
If it is registered as
“I was hurt,”
“I was abandoned,”
“I was no longer important,”
the Child Mind remains frozen in that moment.
As adults, we may then keep searching for people or environments to fill that old inner gap—repeating cycles of expectation and disappointment.
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From that vantage point, we learn to recognize the Child Mind that has been struggling to be fulfilled. We acknowledge it, understand it, and establish trust. Once that trust is in place, we can release outdated survival strategies and introduce new ways of engaging with life.
Moving from:
“I want to be fulfilled” → “I fulfill myself”
Waiting → initiating action
Blame → responsibility and choice
These shifts are simple in concept—but without a real neural connection between the Adult Mind and the Child Mind, the brain cannot perceive these options.
Because the Child Mind’s emotional intelligence is limited, growth becomes possible only when this structure is understood.
Learning how the mind works. Becoming aware of childhood-based patterns. And choosing to guide inner development consciously.
This is what allows life to move forward. And I believe that choosing one’s own growth is the most mature form of self-respect—and self-love.
Warmly,
Saemi
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